The Chimney Fire Christmas

If you close your eyes can you conjure up a roaring fire? Can you feel your muscles relaxing as they soak up heat from a roaring fire? Can you feel the bone and soul-penetrating warmth of wood? 

That’s what I thought of while I was perched on top of a three-story house one freezing, black night after Christmas. Just a boy, barely a teen,  I was actually tied to the chimney. It was a wobbly 1800’s chimney too, with loose bricks and no real mortar, just that clay and horsehair mix they once used like cement. Worst of all, I was holding a hose. I was squirting the roof, creating an ice sheet but didn’t even have a spray nozzle so my numb, blue thumb over the hose hole had to do.  And, somewhere there was a pinhole in the hose hissing up a plume of droplets that froze and fell back onto my face as sleet. Sounds frightening? Honestly, for a country teenager, it was absolutely thrilling.

Back in the ’70s, out in the country, parents would do things like send a skinny youngster up three different frozen ladders with a hose tied to his belt. We lived in a 200-year-old, un-refurbished house.  Fire was not just for atmosphere. It was our only source of heat. Managing it occupied lots of time. We knew what sort of wood to burn, and keeping it going all winter meant that occasionally, we ran out of proper firewood like pecan and hickory so we’d use some bad-burning old pine. Pine’s heavy black smoke builds up on the inside of the chimney, building papery, black, tarry curls of soot. Those can catch fire and rage all the way up the chimney. That is a chimney fire. Chimney fires easily become roof fires. 

Even if the fire truck showed up, there’s no fire hydrant for miles. So skinny, cold me, holding on to a leaky hose was our best defense. It was exciting. I was a great climber. Daddy worked furiously to kill the fire and lock the dampers, Momma and sister yelling instruction up at me. The ranger from the nearby state park came to help. I was on top of it all, action below and the winter sky clear, deep blue velvet studded with diamond stars and flying red embers above. The action went on, the squirting, well past midnight. 

When all was safe, we built a new fire and relaxed and warmed up in front of it. Fire was friend again. The lights on the plastic Christmas tree glowed. Momma made Swiss Miss hot chocolate. It was a Saturday night.  We got to stay up even later and watch Gloria Gainer belt out I Will Survive! on the tv disco show, The Soap Factory. The Chimney-Fire-Christmas may be one of my most memorable, and miserable, Christmas memories. 

Exciting as our backwoods life was, I knew that we were an anomaly. My friends lived in town. They had new houses, concrete driveways that skateboards could roll on, shag carpet, and cable tv. Sometimes I envied them. They didn’t have to cut firewood much less climb burning, frozen chimneys made of horsehair mud. But you know, anytime we had a choice, they wanted to come to my house to play. For them cutting firewood and sleeping in a freezing cold room was adventure.


Decades later, a client insisted that I join in their family Christmas Eve dinner. There was some sort of family drama going on and they felt a guest would help keep things fun. Or, at least civil. This was fancy Christmas like I’d only seen in movies. I was enchanted. For a few minutes, I dreamed of this life. There was a piano player, a paid bartender, and elaborately wrapped gifts each family member had ordered from New York and London. Multiple fireplaces roared. They had piped-in natural gas to keep the logs burning. This client had housekeepers, landscapers, and horse grooming staff, all of one huge Mexican family who lived together nearby. They were my buddies and in a way my work team, so I stopped by their place later that night. Children climbed over me. Plastic toys beeped. Mother’s pressed fried, sugared fritters into my hands. I dreamed of buying a little farm down in Mexico, near these guys’ home. That was a warm cozy dream.

On the long drive home that night, the contrast burned in my thoughts. That may have been my first Christmas Eve away from home, but I drove the few hours, crawled into my own bed, and woke up early to feed the fire so Momma and Daddy, older now,  would be warm when they woke.  

I listened for the gentle roar that indicates a chimney fire. Just like Daddy taught me.  I thought of the chimney fire night. I knew that I loved being right here. Life with cable tv, shag carpet, silver chandeliers, and soap from London wasn’t for me. Moving to Mexico will always be a cozy dream. There’ll always be some people with a lot more and some people with a lot less. I’m pretty damn lucky to have the warmth of wood heat.

Christmases are like that too. Some Christmas memories glitter and some hurt. One year, I had a kidney stone. The kidney stone Christmas hurt a lot. Everyone’s had tough holidays. Last year my friend Brie Arthur, stylish, urbane, and talented got a bug in her ear. A living bug crawled right up in there. Every time it wiggled or flexed its little antennae, she was in excruciating pain. She kind of laughs about it now. Kind of. Not so much really. Christmas after Daddy died was the worst. He always read aloud from a children’s book, The Polar Express, but he’d get all choked up at the part where the grown man hears the jingles of a bell from his childhood family gatherings. With his tender heart, Daddy could never finish the reading. We ended that tradition, put that book away the year he died. Definitely, a Christmas missing Daddy is worst than kidney stones or even that having a bug crawl in your ear and lick your eardrum. 

This Covid Christmas tops it all.  My heart breaks for other families. Our family is safe, though we’ve lost friends to the virus. Eschewing any indoor gatherings and large groups, we ate in the yard. We didn’t invite extended family. It’s the first quiet Christmas here in I don’t know how many decades. In fact, I had the sorry duty of making sure folks knew not to come. But we welcomed a new family member, my niece’s new baby. We were four generations on a sunny afternoon, together, safe and quiet. As the cloud cover cooled the day down and we cleaned up, I looked way up over the roofline to that chimney. It’s lined with stainless steel now. No more chimney fires. No more thrilling nights perched in sleet and red hot embers. This new born boy will never know the thrill. No more plastic Christmas trees with glimmering silver, nylon icicles. But we’ll always have Gloria Gainer. Cheesy I know, but I have to say it; we will survive.  That wood will keep warming and next Christmas we’ll be herding the one-year-old around, plying him with plastic toys, and keeping him from brushing up on the fireplace. 

I hope for you, that even the sad ones, the painful Christmases gone by somehow seem, warm.  Maybe tender is a better word. I hope you find that comforting haze that our powerful minds apply to diminish the pain. Time heals. A bit. Time blurs. 

Christmas this year will be impossible to forget. Tough to put into a cheerful perspective. I trust that science will prevail. We’ll get out of this mess. Our minds will figure out ways to help us cope too. Christmas next year, Christmases to come, always have bright lights, love, and brilliant fires to warm our imaginations and our souls. Here’s to wood fires that will warm our muscles, our souls and our memories.






  1. Deborah on December 24, 2020 at 8:01 pm

    Loved your story. I was able to feel the warmth and thrill of being tied off at the jimney. Nice read

    • Jenks Farmer on December 25, 2020 at 7:01 am


  2. Bill Shear on December 24, 2020 at 8:05 pm

    One of the best Christmas stories I’ve ever read. Thanks, Jenks.

    • Jenks Farmer on December 25, 2020 at 7:00 am

      Thank you Bill, I thought this through while digging bulbs alone yesterday. It’s amazing to me that those solo work thoughts end up touching people.

  3. Chuck in Hanahan on December 24, 2020 at 8:27 pm

    Thanks for sharing a moving, well-written piece.
    I shivered with you on the roof with your leaky hose using your cold wrinkled thumb as a spray nozzle.

    You tell a good story well. Have a safe and healthy Christmas and NEXT we’ll have friends join us.

    • Jenks Farmer on December 25, 2020 at 6:59 am

      You too Chuck! I’m loving my camera!

  4. Kendra Hamilton on December 25, 2020 at 8:24 am

    ??? You’ve always been happy with your family, Jenks. That is a gift and a treasure beyond measure. —Kendra

    • Jenks Farmer on December 26, 2020 at 6:12 am

      Mostly, though I have been writing about the period I was trying to get away, I fell in love and almost bought a coffee farm with a Dominican….

  5. Nancy hanson on December 25, 2020 at 5:46 pm

    Jenks you are a natural storyteller! I loved this story of hardship and the legacy of a wonderful family life! Not many people have really lived life having the experience you have had nor I for that matter! Growing up in Kansas on a farm was hard work full of adventures and living life to the fullest. I feel so fortunate for that childhood. Keep telling us your wonderful memories and reminding us of what real life is about! Thanks

    Please use larger type for older readers who have bad eyes! Thanks

    • Jenks Farmer on December 26, 2020 at 6:11 am

      Thanks! You might like the book Black Earth to Ivory Tower too.

  6. Deborah Holmes on December 26, 2020 at 9:15 am

    I grew up with chimney fires. The roar was terrifying. I just knew the house was going to burn but it was beautiful as we watched the flames and sparks shoot up against the night sky. The fire truck would come and wet down the roof and makes us all feel safe again.

    Your story is beautiful, Jenks.

  7. Lynn Moredock on December 26, 2020 at 9:21 am

    Touching and riveting in a gentle way. I’ve been meaning to read this but something always seemed to interfere. Now, after watching your very enjoyable and informative citrus video, I’m finally settling in to enjoy another of your lovely stories. Happy Boxing Day! Shared.

    • Jenks Farmer on December 26, 2020 at 10:05 am

      Love being around you and knowing you are around the corner.

      • Lynn Moredock on December 26, 2020 at 3:13 pm

        And I love being around you and yours and as Carl (Sling Blade) said: “I like the way you talk.”

  8. Karis on December 26, 2020 at 5:29 pm

    That made my holiday!
    Thank you so much.
    I’m still smiling and feeling warm inside.

  9. Dot Stuit on December 26, 2020 at 10:07 pm

    Thanks so much for sharing the memories. Your writing made me feel like I was on the ground looking up at you hanging from the chimney. I can just see you as a skinny kid slipping and sliding on the frozen patches on the roof and water spraying all over. That wood fire must have felt absolutely wonderful when you finally got to go inside and get hands and feet thawed out.

    • Jenks Farmer on December 27, 2020 at 8:10 am

      Thanks for being part of our farm family Dot.

  10. Doris S. Taylor on December 31, 2020 at 10:25 am

    Thanks, Jenks, your stories are real and you relate them to your readers, so that we were there too. I had a chimney fire many years ago with only me and a small daughter at home. It was absolutely terrifying. Not the memories that are fun to remember. Thanks to a prompt fire department, all ended well. I love your stories. Keep telling them!

    • Jenks Farmer on December 31, 2020 at 1:08 pm

      Thank you Doris! Christmas seems to intesify memories. J

  11. Debby Greenlaw on December 31, 2020 at 2:41 pm

    I loved both your story and the telling of it. It caused me to reflect on many of my own Christmases, those that were joyful and those that were different mostly due to loss of something or someone. You are so right, time reduces their pain, and they become tender memories. Happy New Year!

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